Elder abuse is harm done to a senior by someone he or she knows and trusts, such as a family member, visitor, social worker, doctor or nurse. It affects thousands of Americans in all cultural, social and income groups.
Often, the crime of elder abuse is not reported due to fear of revenge by the abuser, the victim may be ashamed of the abuse, or the victim may be concerned with being labeled as too demanding or senile. Friends and family members of senior citizens should be aware of these warning signs:
Physical abuse
This type of abuse can include hitting, beating, pushing, sexual assault, forcing consumption of drugs, or locking the senior in a room or house. Also watch for:
- unusual cuts, bruises, burns and bites
- poor personal hygiene
- untreated bedsores
- dirty clothing and linen
- emotional withdrawal
Emotional abuse
This type of abuse may include yelling, use of harsh works, neglect, treating the senior like a child and not allowing the senior to speak with others. Look for signs of:
- confusion
- fear and anxiety
- refusal to speak in front of someone
- refusal to speak about certain subjects
Financial abuse
This type of abuse may include not allowing the senior to spend money the way he or she wants, telling lies to get money or property from the senior, stealing money, jewelry or other possessions, and forcing a senior to sell or give away property, or sign a Power of Attorney. Also look for:
- malnutrition
- missing belongings
- sudden changes in the senior's will
- signing of a Power of Attorney without discussing it with a lawyer
If your elderly relatives or friends show signs of abuse, follow these steps to help them:
- Make a note of the warning signs you’ve seen.
- Talk to the senior and offer help. Explain that counselors from agencies can assist without laying blame on anyone.
- If you suspect fraud, physical or sexual assault, theft, forgery or forcible confinement, contact the police.
- If you think a resident of a nursing or retirement home is being mistreated by a staff member, visitor or other resident, report it to the person in charge and follow up to be sure action is taken.